Coincidence, I'm sure.

I chat with someone, we talk about everyday things, I tell him I like, let's say...oranges. Next day, some new man contacts me and wants to talk to me. Guess what, he's crazy about oranges.

I chat with someone, we talk about old buildings. Next day, someone wants my msn address and guess what, his profession is about old buildings.

Some people talk to me regularly enough to get a feeling about their use of language, or their kinks, for that matter. A new person contacts me out of the blue, and I have a deja vu.

Am I paranoid, or am I paranoid?

Ok, it might be my tastes. That I somehow chose people with similar personalities, but...

I guess you could fake an online personna, but your personality will be there for all to see, sooner or later...